You know how much of a great, kind hearted person you really are and that is all that matters. You know that I have stayed out of "your blog" business and have supported you since day one. I know the truth behind why you blog about the things you blog about and I will always be grateful to you for this. I know, you know, and many, many other's know that you have very special "gifts" (yes, yes...I know...we all have them....) However, whatever the case, not everyone uses this ability, knows how, or believes.
YOU KNOW I am a very private person...and I am writing here, for the 1st time to you because I can see the toll this has taken on you in the past couple of months. I hear you cry alone in the bathroom....I see you sleep 3 hours a night, and run on coffee and energy drinks the remaining 21 hours, each day - trying to finish all the free readings you've promised and/or answer media questions, work on another missing person case, etc....etc....etc.....All the while some really hateful, yes- I'm gonna say it - fucked up people continue to bash and trash talk you on a daily basis. Holy rollers emailing you, and weird-o's stalking you. When is it going to be enough FOR YOU? I'm ok with my loss and if you are continuing this path FOR ME, please - stop. You are more important to me and the kids then continuing a blog, which is tearing you down, for my sake... If you are continuing it for YOU - then so be it.
BUT CONSIDER THIS.... YOU GIVE ALL YOUR TIME TO SO MANY WHO REALLY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU, YOUR WELL BEING, OR EVEN KNOW WHO YOU REALLY ARE...AND ALMOST NO TIME TO THE ONES WHO ADORE AND LOVE YOU, UNCONDITIONALLY...YOUR FAMILY. I WOULD TELL YOU IN A HEART BEAT - KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK, IF I THOUGHT FOR ONE MINUTE THAT YOU WERE TRULY BEING APPRECIATED FOR THE REAL TIME AND EFFORT YOU PUT INTO THIS BLOG.
ALSO.....I'VE ACTUALLY BEEN SITTING HERE, READING ALL THE FREE READINGS, REQUEST, AND I ADMIT...I'VE EVEN SNOOPED INTO YOUR EMAIL - AND AM JUST DUMB-FOUNDED AT THE NUMBER OF FREE REQUEST YOU'VE COMPLETED AND STILL HAVE LEFT TO COMPLETE - EVEN I FELT OVERWHELMED!
HAVE YOU ASKED ANY OF THESE "FREEBIES" TO VOTE FOR YOU ON THE TWITTER SHORTY AWARDS?
Well, I know you have. And so far, I think ONE of them spent 5 minutes so far to vote! AFTER YOU SPENT AN ENTIRE DAY,AND EVEN LONGER ON SOME, TO DO A FREE READING FOR THEM, SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY ASKED YOU TO!
I know I can't "make" you do anything... You are you - And that's not a bad thing because you are a giving, selfless human - But it is a curse, when you allow it to consume you.
***********And one word about the little Kansas Baby**********All the media are indicating that my wives "insight" has now been proven "useless" due to NOTHING being found....Well, not sure what you think you know....But NO official search was ever done - Period - by the PD. And the searcher's only searched about 2 hours because of the bad, cold weather conditions. She didn't FAIL at anything. You can't fail at finding something if no one looks for it! Idiots - all of them who do nothing but talk out their ass and spread lies and rumors because they have nothing better to do -
(PS) I know you read all your comments...but I also know that the over 105,000 viewers of your blog don't....so, since you didn't log off, I took it upon myself to do a posting of this comment also - you can delete it when you see it, if you want...but I hope you wont.....AND TO EVERYONE WHO'S TALKIN SHIT....I'M NOT AS NICE AND FORGIVING AS MY WIFE - IT'S A DAMN GOOD THING YOU'RE ABLE TO HIDE BEHIND YOUR COMPUTER SCREEN - THERE'S A NAME FOR PEOPLE LIKE YOU ALL - IT STARTS WITH A P AND ENDS WITH Y......
NOW, THERE'S SOMETHING FOR ALL YOU MEDIA HOUNDS TO PRINT!
(FYI- I nominated you for awards you truly deserve....#Humanitarian and then another in #IStayStrong) I guess we will see if anyone else will follow suit and show they really do appreciate what you've contributed in your effort to make the world a better place to vote, you have to do each one separately @shortyawards)
I love you-
Tu Esposo, Jaime
Steph, You got a Stand-up Husband! Much Love & Light to you both!
ReplyDeleteMelanie, Yes- That I do....I a little shocked that he actually posted on the blog though.... He is generally pretty quite, publicly. :) Thank you
DeleteHi Stephs husband,
ReplyDeleteYou really seem like a great husband, great part of the family.
If this is tearing you guys apart maybe it's best to take a break on it for a while and just focus on your family.
Many of the things you said to your wife remind me of the things my husband says to me at times. It was very validating to see and know another husband has the same thoughts of his wife as mine! You seem like a great guy, and although I don't know anything about what happened to your brothers, I am truly sorry for your agony and loss.
I dont have a twitter account, don't know how it works, do you need one to vote? If you don't need one I will figure out how to vote through the link.
I hope things get better for your family, I'm starting to think if this blog is causing this much heartache for you guys, than it may be time to do what is best for your family and shut it down, take a break or focus on something more positive and rewarding.
I have found sometimes it's just too difficult to make certain dreams come to reality and my husband has said to simply just cherish what I already have rather than beating may head against the wall at what I do not have.
Wishing you and your family all the best,
Marina from Canada
Marina, Thanks - I don't think the blog in it self is "tearing" us apart. I think (I know) my husbands concerns are mainly based on the hurt it's caused me re: hater's and the crazy emails, etc... and 2nd, my relentless hours spent on trying to finish all the promised free readings.....& then people emailing me because I have not gotten to theirs yet, with hateful comments - And it's just like, WTF....And this upsets me, and in turn- really upsets him. Thank you for all you've contributed on this blog....And FYI....I have stepped back quiet a bit & my spirits are better :) As far as the shorty awards, I believe you do have to have a twitter acct. If you open one, follow me! :) Later, Steph
DeleteWow! Steph, I read your blog almost everyday. I usually don't comment on anything I just enjoy reading the raw info you provide. It's not for me to judge, I'm just amazed. What's even worse are those that try to dictate who you are and what you do. If they don't like it they should just quit reading!! It really IS that simple.
ReplyDeleteYour husband has some very good points. You don't OWE anyone anything. Just know you are a beautiful person and there ARE good people in the world.
Thank you - I'm finally starting to realize this & my spirit is improving daily. Have a great day! And again, Thanks!
DeleteMr. Almaguer: I couldn't have said any of that better! I'm also sorry to hear about your own loss. Hearing (reading) this - in your words, makes what other's are saying even more evil to the core. They really don't have a clue.
ReplyDeleteAnd to Steph: Your site looks GREAT this year - I love it. You're absolutely beautiful on the inside and out! Good luck this year. Katie
Interesting. If your husband just "found" your profile with you still signed in, how did he find the blogs of others, who happen to think you are psycho, rather than psychic, and send his comments, individually, to them? And if it really was your husband who made the comment, he needs to understand that your "insights" really WERE useless. Your "insights" brought you "in sight" and did not assist in bringing Lisa Irwin "in sight". It is my belief that you, and your resident spook, never had any intentions of seeing little Lisa found, because if Lisa was found, you would get no more attention. You have no words of wisdom concerning how these problems (missing persons, children, especially) take root, and when a weed is pulled, it must be replaced with a cultivated plant; otherwise, you have only made the garden more hospitable to weeds. That's how I know you are a fake and a fraud. Oh; one more thing, stop attempting to charge money for a seriously defective product. Fraud is a crime.
ReplyDeleteFirst- If you have a question re: me, direct it to me and not my wife. 2nd, anyone with 1/2 a brain knows how to google ones name and then read on that person, idiot. 3rd, until you lose someone as in "missing" and know the true pain, you will never understand me, my wife, and why she does what she does. Keep your comments about her to yourself and dont read her blog if you don't like or believe in her- period. and last...just because your not worthy for a man to defend you, doesn't mean she isn't. so go to hell and leave her alone. you're the fraud and have no clue into my wife, me, or our family and her intent.
DeleteYou know something? If I am really communicating with both of you, you are both incredibly lame. Yes, you just threatened me, and yes, it is against Google's terms of service to behave in such a manner. No decent psychic operates using fear and threats. You are not only a fraud, you're a bully. Honestly, I don't care. I was just giving you my honest opinion of what you do. It's dishonest, and it's wrong.
DeleteHello- I'm not sure what you're talking about....My husb just said to speak to him and not me. He's never gotten into my bus and really isn't now...just thought he'd share his thoughts I guess because of his love for me & the extreme abuse I've taken....leaving him to feel a bit guilty - thinking I continued to be into the "missing person" thing for his sake....There was no threat to you, period... You just really shouldn't judge anyone because you really don't know who or what your judging....Just sayin. It's ok with me that you don't believe in me. I don't post on my blog to gain believers, I post because it's a way to remember wonderful events in mine and my children's/families life - and also a way to honor the memory of my own husband's missing family. One day maybe you will understand, but I hope not - (about missing family) It's complete TORTURE everyday, just not knowing.... Please, if you do not like my blog, just don't look at it. It's very simple- Thank you so much for your opinions and have a wonderful evening- Steph
DeleteStephanie,
ReplyDeleteI have posted three votes but haven't seen them show up??? I have a twitter account and I voted twice through my blackberry and once today from my laptop. I'm not sure when the deadline is but if you let me know when you see this if it isn't too late, if my votes haven't been counted, I'll go cast my votes again until they show up.
Hope things are going better for you and people have backed off. Let he is without sin, cast the first stone! That is the sign I kept on my front door the entire time my daughter was missing.
There isn't one person who has cast judgement upon you who has probably looked in their own mirror...that's for sure!!!!
Blessings and strength to you and yours!!!
All the way in Ontario Canada where your blog has reached out to me,
Tara McDonald <3
OK Jaime...this is my blog...quit posting and be at the air port to get me in bout an hour! Tweeted this to you too... when I get home I'm closing off the comments to this section and changing my damn pass word! Trouble maker!!! :) Still, pick me up though...(NY is AWESOME!) I have pics.
ReplyDeleteBecause people just can't leave me, my blog, my family, alone and must, must pay us so much attention and dedicate their existence to trying to prove at all cost Stephanie is the big liar, fake psychic....I'm gonna have to shut down this comment section too.... I can't believe the insensitivity toward my husband and what a bunch of hypocrites everyone being so ugly are being. Please, just stay off my blog...You're comments will not be posted anyway - So why read? So you can run to another blog and gossip - I'm so glad I won't see you guys when 2012 unleashes - I want to be with those who believe and intend on being around on Jan 1, 2013! Peace - Steph
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